TED Talk Tuesday: Reclaiming the Republic

[Due to technical difficulties yesterday (namely that I had no access to the back-end of my website) TED Talk Tuesday had to be delayed until Wednesday. However, to thumb my nose at the internet gremlins who attacked me, I refuse to change the name to TED Talk Wednesday. So there!]

When I began watching this talk, I fully expected to hear Lawrence Lessig tell us how our political system is broken. What I didn’t expect to hear was how we could fix it, let alone why we should fix it. Lessig’s story about his lecture at Dartmouth (15:24) and his response about love stirs me to the core – not because of my love for country, but because of his passion and his definition of a love that would do anything and everything.

It is my belief that love changes the world. In Lessig’s area of passion, that may be love of country. In mine, that may be love of God and his people. In yours, it may be love of something else. Whatever it is, love will do anything and everything and, just maybe, can bring hope to a hopeless situation.

TED Talk Tuesday: A Kenyan Boy Who Battles Lions

Wherever I go and whoever I talk to about my relationship with Kenya, one point I always try to make is that the relationship between the “developed” world and the “developing” world (in my case, between Americans and Kenyans) doesn’t have to be a one-way relationship. There is a myth that has been advanced by both “first world” and “third world” people that says that those from developing nations must always be on the receiving end of the transaction and those from developed nations must always be on the giving end.

One of the most profound moments I’ve had in Kenya was on my first trip there when I made a simple statement to the church where I was speaking – a statement attached to a request. “I know you want me to pray for you,” I said, “but I think you have something to offer as well. I would like you to pray for me.” The people of that small church were shocked at the idea that they had anything to offer. They had been convinced that they were supposed to always be recipients. The pastor of that church, with whom I am now friends, was moved to tears (very unusual in Kenyan culture). “Who knew,” he said, “that Africans had anything to offer an American.”

With that backdrop, I present to you Richard Turere, a Kenyan boy whose ingenuity not only got outside the box of traditional thinking within one of Africa’s oldest tribes, but whose invention could become a game-changer all over the world. If he had any doubt before, Richard now knows that Africans have a lot to offer the rest of us!

TED Talk Tuesday: The Way We Think About Charity

As someone who has worked in and around non-profit organizations nearly all of my adult life, I had never considered just how wrong some of my own thoughts (and the thoughts of others) are when it comes to how non-profits should spend their money.

Dan Pallotta’s talk is a stark reminder of the disadvantages faced by non-profits as they seek to do some of the world’s most important work. What if a non-profit group could hire a world-renowned expert to help accomplish their goals, rather than relying on whoever is kind-hearted enough to give up a lucrative career?

Here in Texas (and in many other parts of the country), we shrug our shoulders at a college football coach making five or ten times as much as any other faculty member because we understand that football brings in revenue to the school – revenue that can be used for other programs. Yet, we have trouble using the same logic when it comes to our favorite non-profit organization.

Listen to this talk and be challenged. Ask yourself this question: What would be possible if we encouraged moral innovation in non-profits, rather than taking a hard line on frugality?

TED Talk Tuesday: Experience vs. Memory

Our memories are funny things aren’t they? What we experience and what we remember are often very different. I realized this one day a few years ago when the movie Top Gun was showing on one of the cable channels. Now, you have to understand that when I was a kid, Top Gun was the coolest movie ever. Every boy I knew wanted to fly fighter jets and have cool call-signs like “Maverick”. Even as an adult, my memory of that movie was that it was EPIC.

Then, on that fateful day, I watched Top Gun on cable and, having had a couple of decades to embellish the awesomeness of the movie in my memory, I was sorely disappointed at what I saw. Everything from the hairstyles to the clothing choices to the dialog to the acting reminded me that my standards for movies have changed a lot since I was a kid. That awesome movie was suddenly lame. My memory had betrayed me.

Daniel Kahneman reminds us of this disconnect between our experiences and our memories and just how dominant our memories can be. His challenge to experience life, rather than just remember it, is one that I don’t exactly know how to apply. What I do know is that I don’t want embellish or diminish my experiences, nor do I want to dumb down my memory to just the highlights, lowlights or the last few minutes of a particular experience.

I supposed some memories are better left untouched. The experience vs memory gap is probably one of the primary reasons the earth remains populated today. If mothers had to truly experience childbirth every time they thought about their child (rather than just having a memory of it) there would probably be a lot more one-child families. Instead, mothers look at their children and think of all wonderful things. Then, with that perspective, they view the pain of childbirth as “worth it”.

There’s a lot to think about when listening to this talk, but one thing that has really stuck with me is the power of the “final moment”. Getting things right 99% doesn’t really matter if we botch the ending. Conversely, getting it right 70% of the time may do the trick if we finish well. As a pastor, a father, a husband and a future church-planter, this talk has me thinking a lot more about all those little “final moments” in life and how one word or action in that critical time can forever color someone’s view of me, my family, my church and even my God.

My challenge to myself, then, is this: Start well, finish better. (Evidently, the stuff in the middle is only mildly important anyway!)

TED Talk Tuesday: Could your language affect your ability to save money?

Fascinating research from Keith Chen regarding language and economics. As a notoriously bad saver, it’s comforting to know that my native language is at least partially to blame! However, what is more fascinating to me is the idea that the way we speak about things – the syntax that we use – has such a strong effect on how we think about things.

The Bible, of course, speaks to the power of the tongue and some have taken this idea of “speaking things into existence” to an extreme level. But while some believe they can speak things into reality through the cosmos, what we are learning scientifically is that we can at least speak things into existence in our own minds.

The basic underpinnings of ideas like self-esteem and personal motivation rely on this idea that the things we speak to ourselves and the way that we see ourselves can have a dramatic effect on how we live our lives. What if it’s even more complex than we would like to imagine? What if Chen’s findings carry over into every part of our lives? What if, beyond that, the words we speak and the way we speak them combine with our perception of those words to have an even more powerful influence over our lives than we can fathom?

I have long pondered these ideas as they relate to identity. If I’m going to give myself a label and I have certain perceptions of what that label is, do I then adjust myself to fit that label? In other words, if I believe that the label “suburban” carries with it a list of associations – minivans, coaching soccer, 3 kids and a dog – once I move to the suburbs and decide that I am now “suburban”, do I begin to make alterations to myself to adjust to that label?

Perhaps it’s simpler than that. Maybe it can be attributed to other factors like wanting to have a sense of belonging. But Chen’s research makes me wonder. I wonder how the way we speak and think affects our actions. I wonder if our mental “software” – acquired throughout our lives – has us programmed in certain directions.

This talk truly fascinates me. To be honest, I would love to just hang around with this guy and let him talk for a while. I’m certain I would discover much about myself in the process.

TED Talk Tuesday: Agile Programming…for Your Family

Bruce Feiler helps us translate one of the biggest ideas from the world of software development into a functional family dynamic. The “agile” philosophy, he says, helps families to be better at self-governance and less reliant on top-down, or “waterfall”, governance.

As he talks, it’s easy to see the benefits. Kids choose their own punishments before they act out and they can’t really complain when the punishments are doled out when they act out. Beneficial activities are deconstructed to determine what the actual benefit isand then the family finds ways of incorporating that benefit into their particular family dynamic.

My greatest takeaway from this talk is actually not something that Feiler says, but rather, something he implies: Nobody knows your family better than you. Yes, listen to the experts. Learn the research. But there is no one-size-fits-all approach to family. You know your family better than anyone. How can you take what you learn from experts and apply it in your specific situation for your specific family?

One of the greatest pieces of parenting advice that I’ve ever received was in response to a question someone asked about being embarrassed or feeling like a bad parent when their kid acts up in public. The lecturer’s response? “Who cares? Who cares what someone else thinks of you? They don’t know you! They don’t know your kid! That’s YOUR job and you’re the only one who can do it.”

It’s my job to know my family and if I take that seriously, I think we could probably implement an “agile” philosophy in our home.

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